Exhibit 116 out of a million.  Another cancelled visitation.

This one was hard to swallow for a multitude of reasons.

The night prior to his scheduled visitation, my daughter came down with a horrible cough and fever.  I was up with her most of the night as she is prone to complex febrile seizures whenever she has a fever.  I packed the girls into the car early in the morning and drove to our pick-up location.  We left earlier than usual because I needed to stop at the store to buy a humidifier and medication for the “X’s” house as her cough was getting very bad.

We accomplish all of the above and then waited at the coffee shop parking lot.  Seven minutes prior to his pick-up time, he sent an email stating that he isn’t coming.  More excuses.  More lies.  I cried.  I was tired– I was frustrated that I had dragged my sick little girl out of her warm bed and through a store for this man who didn’t deserve to be a father.  Tears for my daughters who deserve so much better.

Mixed emotions again because I was also relieved that I didn’t have to be away from her while she was ill.

At this point, his visitation schedule was three overnight visits per month.  Such a small commitment yet he couldn’t even follow through with that.

One Mom’s Battle: Our mission at One Mom’s Battle is to increase awareness of Cluster B personality disorders (Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder) and their impact upon shared parenting and the Family Court System which includes Judges, CPS workers, Guardian ad Litems (GAL), Parenting Coordinators (PC), Custody Evaluators, therapists and attorneys. Education on Cluster B disorders will allow these professionals to truly act in the best interest of the children.

History of One Mom’s Battle: In 2009, One Mom’s Battle began with one mother, (Tina Swithin), navigating the choppy waters of a high-conflict divorce in the Family Court System. Since then, it has turned into a grassroots movement reaching the far corners of the Earth. Tina’s battle spanned from 2009 – 2014 during which time she acted as her own attorney. Ultimately, Tina was successful in protecting her daughters and her family has enjoyed complete peace since October 2014 when a Family Court commissioner called her ex-husband a “sociopath” and revoked his parenting time in a final custody order.

Tina Swithin: Divorcing a narcissist? Tina Swithin’s books are available online at Amazon (print, Kindle or audio format). Each year, Tina offers life-changing weekends of camaraderie and healing at the Lemonade Power Retreat.  Tina also offers one-on-one coaching services and a private, secure forum called, The Lemonade Club, for those enduring high-conflict custody battles.

 

 

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